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Are You a Psychopath? Two new books on the absence of empathy

This is neat little article in the New York Times about two new books about the absence of empathy. The first, by Jon Ronson, is a book about psychopaths, whom, he points out, are often found in
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Do You Have Psychological Immunity: Too much good parenting makes us unhappy too

Can good parenting be too much of a good thing? Psychologist Lori Gottlieb writing in The Atlantic says so. She talks about the young patients that she sees who come in her office, have great jobs,
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A Good Man is Hard to Find: Where did all the male therapists go

I think we all know that there are good therapists and not-so-good therapists, and also that a good therapeutic experience is very much about fit — I can remember when I was young walking into a
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Your Crazy Mother: She Might Change History

At one time, this vain and powerful woman would have no doubt believed that her son was… the center of the universe
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What Makes Good People Do Bad Things: Are we capable of anything?

As someone who spends most of my day listening to people’s most deeply personal inner lives, there isn’t much that shocks me anymore. That’s good of course. Being shocked is not a very helpful
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Bullying and Self-Esteem: It’s bad for mice, it’s probably bad for you

Not that we need scientific “proof” as such to know that being pushed around and made to feel insignificant is bad for us, but a new study using mice at Rockefeller University managed to create
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Shaken Babies

Oh dear! According to this little item on Gawker there is a study that has found that the number of cases of “shaken baby” syndrome increased dramatically during the economic downturn of the last
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The Problem with Revenge: It should taste sweet, but it seldom does

There is a moment in a Fellini movie that I find I refer to time and again in my sessions. In the foreground, one of the main characters is talking, and in the background we see a baby stroller. It is
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Unemployment Can Kill You

As someone who has been unemployed twice in my adult life, I know how demoralizing it can be. Imagine then, that 9 percent of working Americans are out of work at the moment, and probably an equal
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Cockpit Parenting: Forget about the helicopter, the new trend is total control

I’m a little bit sick of the Gen X, Gen Y, Gen Me trend, but what can you do. We are all trying these days to get a handle on the generational strangeness that is going on between parents and children
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