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	<title>Comments on: Shelton Mother</title>
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	<description>Doula, Birth Advocate, Aspiring Midwife, Mother, and Wife</description>
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		<title>By: Allison</title>
		<link>http://blog.ctnews.com/elwood/2010/02/03/shelton-mother/#comment-414</link>
		<dc:creator>Allison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 19:05:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for posting this; it is nice to see a concerned post.  I too am tired of hearing about all the speculation.  My brother (19) passed away a year and a half ago from a drug overdose.  There were all kinds of hurtful posts on the net with him also and I just view it as so unnecessary.  As fellow human beings, why can we not just mourn the loss with the family? Even if we do not know them (which I dont) I think it is only right to send our love and sympathy their way.  Grief, especially of a young loved one, is the most horrifying thing anyone could ever go through.  My heart is with all of Tori&#039;s family and I am soooooo sorry for your loss. I know it is hard, but you should try to stop reading these posts on the net, most of them are malicious.  Instead, lean on one another and maybe start a memory page for her friends and family.  THat way you can read only positive things.  A good one is blogspot.com
I will be thinking of you throughout this year and hope that you seek help if you need it.
Love through grief,
Allison</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for posting this; it is nice to see a concerned post.  I too am tired of hearing about all the speculation.  My brother (19) passed away a year and a half ago from a drug overdose.  There were all kinds of hurtful posts on the net with him also and I just view it as so unnecessary.  As fellow human beings, why can we not just mourn the loss with the family? Even if we do not know them (which I dont) I think it is only right to send our love and sympathy their way.  Grief, especially of a young loved one, is the most horrifying thing anyone could ever go through.  My heart is with all of Tori&#8217;s family and I am soooooo sorry for your loss. I know it is hard, but you should try to stop reading these posts on the net, most of them are malicious.  Instead, lean on one another and maybe start a memory page for her friends and family.  THat way you can read only positive things.  A good one is blogspot.com<br />
I will be thinking of you throughout this year and hope that you seek help if you need it.<br />
Love through grief,<br />
Allison</p>
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		<title>By: elwood</title>
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		<dc:creator>elwood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 21:07:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so sorry for your loss.
My husband was also a good friend of Tori.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so sorry for your loss.<br />
My husband was also a good friend of Tori.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa Johnson</title>
		<link>http://blog.ctnews.com/elwood/2010/02/03/shelton-mother/#comment-406</link>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Johnson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 19:58:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tori was my best friend, and as much as I know i need to stop reading all this stuff of the internet they keep posting - it&#039;s hard... because I can&#039;t call her to talk about my day anymore, we can&#039;t share our funny - silly - or w/e stories about our kids.. I&#039;ll never see her again... and that is probably the hardest thing for me (and many who knew her) to comr to terms with. I saw her 2 days before she passed on, and i had no idea she was pregnant and did not feel she was hiding anything from me... she wouldn&#039;t have had any reason to! She was so much to so many and the media only cares about the &quot;story&quot; not those who grieve for who they lost. Tori was an angel on earth - and I was blessed to have the time I did have with her... out of selfishness - I wish i had more time... but she&#039;s GOD&#039;s child.
Thanks for your post about her.. it was refreshing to see something that didn&#039;t try to speculate or trash her!
*Rest now my dear friend Tori - I love you  - and I&#039;ll be there for your family as much as I can!*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tori was my best friend, and as much as I know i need to stop reading all this stuff of the internet they keep posting &#8211; it&#8217;s hard&#8230; because I can&#8217;t call her to talk about my day anymore, we can&#8217;t share our funny &#8211; silly &#8211; or w/e stories about our kids.. I&#8217;ll never see her again&#8230; and that is probably the hardest thing for me (and many who knew her) to comr to terms with. I saw her 2 days before she passed on, and i had no idea she was pregnant and did not feel she was hiding anything from me&#8230; she wouldn&#8217;t have had any reason to! She was so much to so many and the media only cares about the &#8220;story&#8221; not those who grieve for who they lost. Tori was an angel on earth &#8211; and I was blessed to have the time I did have with her&#8230; out of selfishness &#8211; I wish i had more time&#8230; but she&#8217;s GOD&#8217;s child.<br />
Thanks for your post about her.. it was refreshing to see something that didn&#8217;t try to speculate or trash her!<br />
*Rest now my dear friend Tori &#8211; I love you  &#8211; and I&#8217;ll be there for your family as much as I can!*</p>
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