Starbucks employee calls cops on parents changing diaper

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A Denver couple decided to change their baby’s diaper in the seating area of a Starbuck’s when they realized the coffee shop’s restroom wasn’t equipped with a changing table. Ruth and Alex Burgos were making a Friday night coffee run with their 1-year-old son Thiago when they were faced with the must-change nappy.

“As a mother, you have to do what you have to do. Wherever you have to do it,” Ruth told 9News. “I just kind of wiped him off, cleaned him off as quickly as I could.”

A Starbucks employee was displeased by the Burgos’ choice and tossed a rag at the couple while shouting out rude comments. “You better clean that seat,” the barista said, and then proceeded to laugh with fellow employees.

The father Alex was irritated by the employee’s demeaning tone and dumped his drink onto the floor and said, “You make sure you clean that up,” according to USA Today.

One of the employees called 911 and cops came onto the scene. No arrests were made. Starbucks has since apologized to the Burgos family.

This story raises the question, What is appropriate and inappropriate when it comes to changing diapers outside the house? I think it all depends on the situation, the severity of the diaper (wet or dirty?) and how discreetly it can be changed. Parents need to use their best judgement. But generally, I think you should always aim to change a diaper in a private place and it’s an especially bad idea to change a dirty diaper in a public place where people are consuming food and beverages.

CougarLife breastfeeding ad campaign: Clever or tasteless?

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Does this billboard make you laugh or make you mad? (Cougar Life)

A new billboard  rising above Los Angeles’ glamorous Sunset Boulevard is stirring up some controversy.

The advertisement for CougarLife, the largest dating site for pairing younger men with older woman, features a bare-breasted woman nursing a newborn. A conversation bubble above the baby reads, “Jealous?”

The billboard sits in the middle of the 90069 zip code, which supposedly has the highest concentration of cougars in America. Cougars are often defined as women 35 and over who like to date younger men and one-third of CougarLife’s 4 million members are single moms, according to CBS, so the ad is meant to tie in with these women who might still be nursing.

What do you think? Clever or tasteless?

A blogger over at LAist.com gives the billboard a big fat fail. “We are not quite as comfortable with sexualizing such an intimate, natural stage in motherhood and babyhood,” Lauren Lloyd writes.

Miss CougarLife Marlo Brandon defends the billboard and told CBS that an eye-catching image was necessary to cut through Tinsel Town’s billboard clutter.

While I can understand the Last’s concern that the billboard sexualizes breastfeeding and the idea of a cougar dating site using this image seems tasteless, I can’t get that worked up over the billboard. I actually find it a little funny and if anything it’s helpful to get more photos of women breastfeeding out there so people become more comfortable with the sight of a nursing mom (although I understand this wasn’t CougarLife’s intention). What do you think?

NY Post: Wealthy moms hire disabled guides to skip lines at Disney World

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Rich moms are paying disabled guides to get their kids to the front of long lines at Disney World. (Paul Thompson / Getty)

What’s the latest indulgence for wealthy parents? A day at Disney World with a disabled guide who can help you and your precious saplings jump to the front of long lines, according to the New York Post.

These parents are taking advantage of Disney World’s policy that allows guests in a wheelchair or motorized scooter, plus up to five members of their party, to use auxiliary entrances intended to offer disabled guests “a more convenient entrance to the attraction.”  While the auxiliary entrances are “not intended to bypass waiting lines,” they are known to get guests on a ride much faster.

“My daughter waited one minute to get on ‘It’s a Small World’ — the other kids had to wait 2 1/2 hours,” one mom, who hired a disabled guide through Dream Tours Florida, told the Post. “This is how the 1 percent does Disney.”

The guides reportedly cost $130 an hour or $1,040 for an eight-hour day. This might seem high, especially since you’re also paying entrance fees, but Disney World’s comparable VIP service that gets groups to the front of lines costs $315 to $355 an hour.

The New York Post doesn’t quote any named sources in its article and messages left with the tour company singled out in the article remained unanswered, but Disney is still investigating the situation.

“We are thoroughly reviewing the situation and will take appropriate steps to deter this type of activity,” spokesperson Bryan Malenius, Yahoo.com. ”It is unacceptable to abuse accommodations that were designed for guests with disabilities.”

The New York Post was tipped off to the scam by social anthropologist Dr. Wednesday Martin, who learned about the underground network while doing research for her upcoming book “Primates of Park Avenue.”

“It’s insider knowledge that very few have and share carefully,” Dr. Martin told the Post.

While some New York Post readers are pointed out that the scam is a good deal for disabled people who are making some good money, I find it disgraceful. These people are clearly taking advantage of Disney policy. Plus, as someone who took her kids to Disneyland for the day last year, I don’t think the lines are that bad if you’re smart about planning out your day and using FastPasses. And if you have to wait in a 45-minute line, what’s the worst thing that might happen? You might have a conversation with your teenager or play patty-cake with your toddler.

Disability scams to make life a little easier aren’t anything new. The Wall Street Journal recently reported on the trend of travelers faking a disability to get a wheelchair to speed through security. Officials at Los Angeles International Airport say that 15 percent of wheel chair users are phony. In San Francisco, drivers are known to “exaggerate injuries to convince doctors to sign documents” so they can obtain handicap placards that give them special parking privileges. In a city where street parking is scarce and meter rates high, these placards can save someone a lot of time and money.

Funny photos: Kids fall asleep in the darndest places

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As adults we often struggle to fall asleep in our own beds, but tired toddlers can doze off almost anywhere—in the middle of a pizza party at Chuck E. Cheese, in the front row of the Nutcracker Ballet (my son did this), at an outdoor rock concert. And the toddler pictured above nodded off in a shopping cart at Ikea. The head resting on the cart handle and the missing shoe are classic! (Where is that shoe? Hmmm…maybe she stuck it in a Birkeland dresser drawer?)

This hilarious image recently attracted a lot of attention on Reddit. CeriLKilla posted it with the caption ”Ikea is like a triathlon to a toddler.” But a blogger wisely pointed out over at the Huffington Post, Ikea is a triathlon for everyone.

We love this image so much that we thought it would be fun to create a photo gallery of kids and babies sleeping in crazy places. What’s the most unusual place your kid has ever fallen asleep? Did you capture the moment with a photo? If so, please add it to our Sleeping Babies photo gallery. Or you can email images to moms@sfgate.com; please include “Sleeping Kids” in the subject line. Thanks!

[Huffington Post and Houston Chronicle]

Non-Moms Day: Do women who opt to not have kids deserve a special day?

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9781580054430_p0_v2_s260x420Yesterday, moms across America were pampered with breakfast in bed, foot massages and bouquets of roses. Yes, some moms were more pampered than others (as not everyone buys into the overcommercialization of the holiday), but most moms with young kids probably at least received a homemade card because elementary school teachers recognize that children enjoy celebrating and honoring their mothers. And I think that most moms would agree that while an hour of peace and quiet at a spa is nice, it’s those gifts put together with too much glue and covered in chicken scratch writing that mean the most.

But what about all of those women who choose not to have kids? Do non-Moms also deserve a special day? Is it unfair to put moms up on a pedestal for a day without designating a day for women without children?

The idea of a Non-Moms Day came up in yesterday’s San Francisco Chronicle. Katherine Seligman wrote a story about the new anthology No Kidding: Women Writers on Bypassing Parenthood that features a collection of stories by 36 women who opted not to (or couldn’t) have kids. Seligman writes that these writers hope to “spark conversation and perhaps consideration of a new holiday tradition, Non Moms Day.”

My reaction to the idea: Really? It’s silly because Mother’s Day isn’t about putting down or alienating women who aren’t moms. Some people are way too sensitive. Mother’s Day is about families coming together and saying a simple thank you to the mom in the family who has dedicated a huge part of her life to raising and supporting her children.

My opinion: We don’t need a special day for non-moms, but we should take steps to encourage a culture that accepts women (or couples) who choose not to have kids whatever their reason.

What do you think? Does the holiday calendar need a Non Moms Day?

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A 12-year-old’s tribute to his mom

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Many thanks to the SFGate readers who submitted tributes to their mothers. We’ve enjoyed sharing your stories this past week. Here’s one more from a 12-year-old boy.

A 12-year-old’s tribute to his mom

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Me and my Mom

Moms are so important that we should have mother’s day everyday, but of course we can never really pay our moms back just hope they are proud of us. Ever since I was born my mom has given my learning toys, taken me to museums and has always enlightened my mind. One example is she would take me to junkyards and we would see cars get smashed. Another is she would take me skiing, to boy scouts and even horseback riding every once in a while. She has always encouraged collecting (for me it’s collecting guitars and swords) and she has even encouraged me to get into motor cross.

She as well has taken me to places less for learning and more for fun such as She has brought me to motorcycle races, Disneyland, Discovery Kingdom, 49er’s games, Giant’s games and even brought me to see some of the best bands in the world including The Who, Rush, and The Monkeys.

My mom showers me with love hugs and kisses, and she likes to read to me at night. I believe she is the best mom in the world!

And I truly believe that we should have Mother’s Day everyday.

Reader photos: Like mother, like daughter

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Let’s face it. Women can’t help but be like their mothers. Our mothers are ingrained in us, whether we have our mother’s nose, our mother’s knack for making a perfect pie crust, or our mother’s love for opera.

Last week, I invited readers to submit photos that capture the similarities between mothers and daughters. I was overwhelmed by the response and many thanks to the dozens of readers who shared their family photos. The love expressed in these images was so touching that I found myself wiping my eyes with tissues while creating the slide show.

Take a look at the mother daughter images from past years below.

Inspiration for photo captions above: The Daddy Book by Todd Parr

What moms really want for Mother’s Day

Remember all those animal shaped soaps and scented candles you gave your mom for Mother’s Day over the years? Are they still collecting dust sitting on a shelf in her house? Here’s a secret: Most moms would rather have something else, here are some gift ideas she might actually really appreciate.

And here are some things she probably doesn’t want:

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