Archive for July, 2012

Charity offers free plastic surgery to bullying victims

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teenagers plastic surgeryNadia Ilse will never forget when in first grade a girl walked up to her on the playground and said, “You have the biggest ears I’ve ever seen!”

Up until that point, Nadia had never considered the size of her ears, according to CNN. But from that day on she became the girl with Dumbo ears and kids viciously teased her. The happy-go-lucky and outgoing kid became introverted and antisocial.

Nadia, now age 14, is making national news headlines as she’s the most recent success story coming out of a New York-based non-profit that offers free corrective surgery to teens who’ve been bullied. Little Baby Face covered a $40,000 otoplasty operation to have Nadia’s ears pinned back. Dr. Thomas Romo, III, also reduced the size of Nadia’s nose and altered her chin to create a more balanced face.

Nadia’s story is reigniting the debate over whether kids who are bullied for their appearance should go under the knife. Parents will do just about anything to stop their kids from being bullied at school—but should they allow their kids to get plastic surgery? And if yes, how young is acceptable?

The number of teens getting plastic surgery has increased by 30 percent in the past decade, according to the American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery “In 2007 alone, about 90,000 youth underwent cosmetic surgery — though not all cases were the result of teasing,” reports the Huffington Post.

In some cases the kids undergoing surgery are much younger than Nadia. Last year, ABC News covered the story of 7-year-old Samantha Shaw who also received the funding for an otoplasty from the Little Baby Face Foundation. “This was a preventative way so she wouldn’t get bullied,” Samantha’s mom told ABC. “Kids are mean. That’s just how they are.”

Nadia wishes she received the treatment at a younger age because it would have saved her a lot of heart ache. The teen suffered through years of name-calling and even though her ears are finally pinned back, she’s still about to start a counseling program.

[CNN and Huffington Post]

Miami Marlins’ Logan Morrison infuriates moms with breast feeding tweet

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Miami Marlins’ Logan Morrison, left, turns to smile at Hanley Ramirez (2) as they walk back to the dugout after Morrison’s two-run homer against the Boston Red Sox in the first inning of an interleague baseball game at Fenway Park in Boston on Tuesday, June 19, 2012. Photo: Elise Amendola / AP

Last week Miami Marlins’ left fielder Logan Morrison, 23, was shopping at a Nordstrom in the Miami area and spotted a woman breast feeding an infant.

Morrison, who is often referred to as LoMo, was reportedly disgusted by the sight and he snapped a photo with his phone and posted it on Twitter, according to the Huffington Post.

Morrison is known for his colorful tweets and has over 119,000 followers on Twitter—and many of them were quick to fire back at the left fielder. Sports Illustrated writer Jay Jaffe tweeted:

Morrison shot back:

The two guys eventually took it offline and Jaffe let his followers know that he and the left fielder had reconciled:

Marlins’ president Craig Samson is concerned about Morrison’s Twitter behavior. “I’m not a dinosaur,” Samson told ESPN, “but I’m not thrilled. It’s very scary to me. I’ve told Logan, ‘People are waiting for you to make a mistake. They’re going to bait you on Twitter to say something inappropriate that you can never take back.’

“It takes an entire career to build a reputation, and one tweet to lose it. As long as he understands that, it’s fine.”

Morrison has since pulled the tweet with the photo of the mom, but I’d also like to see an apology. Secretly photographing a nursing mom and then posting the image on the Internet and mocking her is downright rude, tasteless and inconsiderate. We’re talking about a new mom here who was probably venturing out to the mall for the first time to buy herself a new pair of jeans that actually fit—and I can only imagine that she was frazzled and faced with the difficult situation of finding a place to nurse a hungry newborn. Give the woman a break, please!

Morrison’s childish behavior isn’t setting a good example for his Twitter followers.  ESPN reports that most of them are young teens—and these kids desperately need athlete role models who are respectful and polite. Let’s hope Morrison learns from his mistakes and starts making better decisions. This might already be happening because this week he’s tweeting about raising money for cancer.

[Huffington Post and Miami New Times]

Video: Air Force dad returns from Afghanistan, gives son ‘Star Wars’ surprise

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Col. Rob Kiebler of Beaverton, Ore., was on tour of duty in Afghanistan for over 14 months with the U.S. Air Force, leaving behind his 5-year-old son and wife.

Kiebler thought he wasn’t coming home until the end of summer but when he learned that he would be back earlier and in time for his son’s birthday, he decided to make his homecoming a grand surprise. Kiebler’s son, Danny, is a “Star Wars” fan, so the father and members of Portland’s Cloud City Garrison (a “Star Wars” fan club) dressed up like characters from the movie and walked into a restaurant where Danny was celebrating his birthday with family.

Kiebler, wearing a Jedi Knight costume, walked up to Danny and flipped up his hood. At first Danny seems stunned and he doesn’t even seem to recognize his father who he hasn’t seen in over a year. But then the boy gets a big smile on his face and jumps into his father’s arms.

The video is going viral, getting picked up by Babble and Huffington Post, and many YouTube users are saying the footage of father and son embracing brought them to tears. But some users are also criticizing Danny for his unemotional response.

DonRach8992 comments:

Great video but disappointed with the reaction. He just says “Hi.” as if it was no big deal. I think he should have jumped screaming “DADDY!” but no he just says “Hi’ with a wave like any kid would when Dad comes home from work.

I think the criticisms are unfair. As a mother I’ve learned that kids don’t know how to digest surprises—and they never respond to them in the way you’d expect. Last year, I surprised my daughter with a visit from her aunt and cousin at her birthday dinner. My daughter was utterly stunned when she first walked into the restaurant and saw her out-of-state relatives sitting at the table. She didn’t run up to them and give them big hugs or scream out, “Wow!” as I would have expected. Instead she was quiet and awkward and looked completely shell-shocked and then she burst into tears.

So let’s give this kid a break. What his dad is very cool and Danny was probably too overwhelmed and stunned to give a Hollywood performance. I’m sure when he’s a grown man and looking back and watching this video, he’ll shed some tears.

Fifth grader’s same-sex marriage speech goes viral

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A fifth grader whose same-sex marriage speech was banned from a New York public school competition is getting national attention. Last week Kameron Slade, 10, was invited to deliver his powerful words to the New York City Council and video footage of his performance taken by NY1 television is going viral.

Two months ago Kameron wrote a speech on why gays should have the right to marry for a competition at his public school in Queens, N.Y. He was inspired by Barack Obama’s support of gay marriage and wanted to share his views on the issue with his classmates.

But Kameron never delivered his speech in the competition because his school’s principal, Beryl Bailey, decided the topic was inappropriate.

Local media quickly picked up the story, the principal was made to look stupid and the Education Department learned about the incident. Kameron was invited to give his speech at a separate assembly at his school and YouTube footage of it was viewed more than 600,000 times, according to the New York Times.

Now Kameron is reaching an even wider audience. Last week, council speaker, Christine C. Quinn, invited Kameron to share his powerful words with the New York City Council.

Wearing a coat and tie, Kameron read from a paper that he tightly held in his hands and delivered his thoughtful and heartfelt words to a room filled with politicians:

President Barack Obama recently talked about same-sex marriage with his wife and two daughters. Some people are for same-gender marriage, while others are against it. Like President Obama, I believe that all people should have the right to marry whoever they want. Marriage is about love, support and commitment. So who are we to judge?

Many council members were touched. “I’m getting married on Saturday, in three days, to my partner of 13 and a half years,” Councilman Jimmy Van Bramer, a Democrat, told the NY Times. “When I saw you on TV, I thought you were the most courageous and wonderful young man I’ve ever seen.”

[New York Times, Jezebel]

An 8-year-old girl’s thoughts on why women are awesome

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What makes being female so wonderful? That’s the question an 8-year-old girl was asked to answer in school recently.

This smart little cookie grabbed her pencil and scrawled this “unexpected” list of reasons why women are so awesome:

We have veginas.
We get jobs.
We are creative.
We have stuff that makes us preanet.
We have milk in our bobes.
We are smart.
We have power.

Amen.

The girl’s father shared the list with the Reddit community and many users were inspired by her powerful message and her use of the word “vegina”:

That was one of the most touching and empowering messages I have ever read about being a woman. You’re daughter is my hero, and appears to be very sharp for her age.

I give you a million for teaching her to use the word vagina instead of some weird pet name for it. I think that it is a big deal for a little girl or boy to use the right words for the vagina and penis, I think it is more empowering than it would seem.

The list quickly spread across the Internet universe, appearing on Facebook walls and on national news sites ranging form the Huffington Post to Jezebel.

Down syndrome baby lands swimsuit modeling job

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A 10-month-old baby named Valentina Guerrero is the new lead model for Spanish swimwear designer Dolores Cortés’ 2013 children’s swimsuit collection, DC Kids, according to MSNBC. The baby girl graces the cover of the new Dolores Cortés USA catalog.

With an adorable smiley face, this baby from Miami has the look of a model but she’s an unlikely choice because she has Down syndrome.

The blogosphere is praising Cortés for choosing Valentina and sending a message of inclusion. The designer is making the point that all children deserve opportunities regardless of their appearance or a medical condition.

Cortés announced the news last week at Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Swim in Miami Beach and walked down the runway holding Valentina in her arms. She told AdWeek:

“People with Down syndrome are just as beautiful and deserve the same opportunities. I’m thrilled to have Valentina modeling for us.”

Valentina isn’t the first Down syndrome child to model. Earlier this year Target released an ad featuring a blue-eyed, shaggy blonde-haired boy named Ryan. Target was applauded for being low-key about the ad. The company never created a press release, sending the message that Ryan was just like the other kids.

A father of a Down syndrome child wrote on his blog Noah’s Dad:

This wasn’t a “Special Clothing For Special People” catalog. There wasn’t a call out somewhere on the page proudly proclaiming that “Target’s proud to feature a model with Down syndrome in this week’s ad!” And they didn’t even ask him to model a shirt with the phrase, “We Aren’t All Angels” printed on the front. In other words, they didn’t make a big deal out of it. I like that.

Tripp Palin, 3, uses anti-gay slur on TV

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Tripp Palin might be only 3 years old but the grandchild of politician Sarah Palin is already developing a foul mouth. A clip from the Lifetime reality series “Bristol Palin: Life’s a Tripp” shows the boy throwing a tantrum and using an anti-gay slur “when mom Bristol and aunt Willow won’t let him visit the swimming pool,” the Huffington Post reports.

Where did Tripp pick up this language? Possibly from aunt Willow. In November 2010 when the premiere of “Sarah Palin’s Alaska” aired, Willow used the same homophobic slur in a Facebook post when responding to a classmate who criticized the show.

During the premiere, Willow’s classmate named Tre wrote, “Sarah Palin’s Alaska is failing so hard right now.”

Willow responded: “Haha your so gay. I have no idea who you are, But what I’ve seen pictures of, your disgusting … My sister has a kid and is still hot.” And then she wrote another comment: “Tre stfu. Your such a faggot.”

Tripp’s vocabulary might not be surprising coming from the notoriously anti-gay Palin family, but doesn’t 3 seem a little young to be using this word? At least Bristol admits that she’s “doing a terrible job disciplining Tripp.”

The most awkward family vacation photos ever

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Last week MSNBC reported on the latest trend among upper-crest Americans: Hiring a professional photographer to capture family vacations. Asking a random person walking by to snap a photo of your family with your point-and-shoot is no longer good enough. No, that shot of your family standing on a Maui beach at sunset needs to be professionally photographed so you have quality photos to post on your Facebook wall and mail out at Christmas.

“I do get the comment, ‘Oh, can we grab one on this beach for my Facebook profile?’” Mariah Milan, a Maui-based photographer who says that vacation photography now comprises half her business that was once exclusively wedding shoots, told MSNBC. “It started out slowly, and every year it’s gotten busier and busier for families. Year after year I set records.”

I find this trend terribly annoying and scary because it could mean that we’re nearing the end of the awkward family vacation photo—that comical, uncomfortable or downright awful photo that captures the Griswold in every family. A professional photographer would never tell a family to wear matching muumuus and aloha shirts or snap a photo when the kids are pouting (or fist-fighting). Awkward photos might not be suitable for the family Christmas card but they capture the essence of a family vacation—the ups and downs. Every family needs at least one photo that they can look back on for a good laugh.

To celebrate the importance of the awkward family vacation photo, I’ve reached out to the hugely popular website Awkward Family Photos, and they’ve shared a collection of pics that only a Clark Griswold-type could dream up. Enjoy!

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