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OB-GYN in trouble for complaining about patient online

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A St. Louis OB-GYN might lose her job for complaining about a patient on Facebook, according to KMOV-TV.

Dr. Amy Dunbar of Mercy Hospital didn’t reveal intimate details about her pregnant patient but she did express irritation about her arriving late for appointments and failing to show up for an induction. In the comments, Dunbar added that she is forced to put up with the patient’s tardiness and isn’t cancelling the induction because she had a prior still birth.

While Dr. Dunbar’s post received dozens of likes and encouraging comments, it also enraged many people who felt the doctor shared too much information about a patient online. Some are going as far as to demand that Mercy fire the OB-GYN.

Earlier this week the hospital released a statement addressing the incident.

Mercy values the dignity and privacy of all our patients and we are very sorry that this incident occurred. While our privacy compliance staff has confirmed that this physician’s comments did not represent a breach of privacy laws, they were inappropriate and not in line with our values of respect and dignity.

The hospital also commented on demands that Dr. Dunbar lose her job:

Mercy holds its physicians and other co-workers to high standards in ensuring the protection of patient information. We cannot comment on specific disciplinary actions, but we will use this as an opportunity to reinforce our standards through additional education of our physicians and co-workers, including appropriate use of social media.

What do you think? Should Dr. Dunbar lose her job?

I don’t think she should be fired, after all she never even names the patient. But she needs to learn that griping about patients, even if unnamed, in a public forum is entirely wrong and unacceptable. Women often share close relationships with their OB-GYNs. After all an OB is given a window into the most private part of a woman’s body. What’s more these doctors are often the holders of many secrets and information that nobody else knows. They know about the abortions, the date rapes, the sexually transmitted diseases, the dysfuntional marriages. Women need to be able to trust their OB-GYNs, in some ways more than anyone else, and Dr. Dunbar clearly broke that trust. If she needs to vent about an annoying patient (and in this case the patient sounded frustrating) then she should complain to her partner or best friend but not on Facebook!

[Huffington Post and KMOV]

Photo: Restaurant manager comps pregnant woman’s meal, leaves awesome note

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A pregnant woman gets a free meal and a nice message from a Red Robin restaurant manager. (The Consumerist)

I often write stories about pregnant women and moms being discriminated against in restaurants: A manager asks a nursing mom to take her business into the bathroom or a bartender scolds an expecting mom for taking a sip of a beer (which turns out to be her husband’s).

I love this story because it’s about a pregnant woman getting a little special treatment—not that expecting moms deserve royal treatment all the time, but when you’re 41 weeks pregnant, a full week overdue, and lugging around a belly the size of three bowling balls, it makes your life a little bit more bearable when someone does something nice.

In this case, a pregnant woman who was several days late was dining out at a Red Robin restaurant in North Carolina with her husband and 2-year-old son.

The family enjoyed some pizza and burgers and when the bill arrived the manager had comped the woman’s $11.50 meal and left a nice note on the receipt.

Yes, the manager might need some lessons in spelling as the note reads “Mom 2 Bee Good Luc,” but he certainly doesn’t need any help with thoughtfulness and class.

The woman’s husband, Jason, full appreciated the gesture. “It was a pleasant surprise and made my tired of being pregnant wife a little more cheery,” Jason told the Consumerist.

Jason was so pleased that he sent a photo of the receipt and note about the positive experience to the Consumerist, a blog published by Consumer Reports.

The Consumerist ran a story on Jan. 7 and writer Chris Morran pointed out, “It’s incredibly easy to get customers to say bad things about your business but very difficult to please a customer to the point where they want to share the story with everyone. In this case, the $11.50 that this Red Robin didn’t take in that night is probably money well-invested.”

Definitely true. The image of this receipt has been shared across the Internet, on Facebook, the Huffington Post and dozens of parenting blogs. I wonder how many pregnant women are going to Red Robin for dinner this week?

Latest pregnancy oversharing trend: Ultrasound parties

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Latest pregnancy trend: Ultrasound parties. (Jordache / Shutterstock)

In this world of too much information, aka TMI, a new trend is emerging among pregnant women—who just might be the ultimate “oversharers.”

This morning, NBC’s Today Show aired a segment about ultrasound parties. At these intimate events, parents-to-be invite friends and family into their homes for a viewing of the fetus. A pregnant woman might lie down on the living room sofa while a technician with an ultra sound machine and laptop runs a scan over the swollen belly. The party guests gather round, ewing and ahhing at the sight of tiny hands and feet and a teeny unborn baby who looks like an alien.

Often the baby’s gender is revealed for the first time at these parties.

Today talked with licensed ultrasound techs Teena Gold and Christy Foster of Arkansas who founded Baby Face and More, offering in-home ultrasounds. The members of the American Registry for Diagnostic Medical Sonography started the business as soon as they could afford a high-quality mobile ultrasound machine of their own,” and they charge $100-$350 per screening. The majority of their business is gender-reveal parties.

Other similar companies are springing up around the country. In Santa Monica, Calif., Peek A View offers baby-viewing parties starting at $375. In Southern Florida, Miracles Imaging will bring the ultrasound equipment to your party for $179.

I write this story begrudgingly because I think today’s pregnant women often share too much information, posting weekly pregnant belly photos on Facebook and hiring professional photographers to capture their child births. At what point do pregnant women start to come off as overly self-absorbed?

But while I’m rolling my eyes at ultrasound parties because they seem like excessive naval-gazing, experts have bigger concerns. “What if the ultrasonographer started the ultrasound and there was no heartbeat?” Dr. Amber Sills, an OB/GYN from Bentonville, Ark., told Today. “Or what if the fetus had not developed a skull/head/brain? This happens more than most people realize. What do you do then?”

The ultimate pregnancy souvenir? A 3-D model of your unborn fetus

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Expecting moms always look forward to receiving ultrasounds, when they know they’ll go home with images of their unborn fetus. Women proudly post these pics on their refrigerators and Facebook walls. An ultrasound image is proof that there’s a living being miraculously growing inside that belly!

A Japanese healthy clinic is taking this idea a step further and using MRI data and new 3-D printing technology to create models of the unborn fetus. A 3-D printer takes in all the MRI data builds the 3-D model with resin, resulting in a creamy colored fetus floating in a clear cube. Of course, this token comes at a high price. Customers are paying $1,200 for the souvenirs, and this doesn’t even include the cost of the MRI, according to Mashable.com.

Too much? The company plans to offer a model of the fetus face at half the price.

The 3-D technology is certainly impressive and amazing but if I were pregnant I’d probably stick with the typically free paper ultrasound printouts and digital images that you can easily stick inside your child’s baby book.

[Mashable.com]

Pregnant woman in labor makes it to the polls in Chicago

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I don’t care if you’ve got a flat tire or if your grandmother is in the hospital or if you’ve broken your right arm. There are no excuses for not voting!

Yesterday morning, a pregnant Chicago-area woman who was in labor stopped by the polls to place her vote on her way to the hospital.

When Galicia Malone, 21, arrived at her polling place, her water had already broken and her contractions were five minutes apart.

This was the first election Galicia was able to vote in and she wanted to set a good example for her soon-to-be born daughter.

“If only all voters showed such determination to vote,” Cook County Clerk David Orr told NBC Chicago. “My hat goes off to Galicia for not letting anything get in the way of voting. What a terrific example she is showing for the next generation, especially her new son or daughter.”

Brave woman delivers baby at 35,000 feet

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A surprising number of babies are born on planes. (czechbest / Shutterstock)

Most doctors tell healthy pregnant women that it’s safe to fly up until 35 or 36 weeks. Regardless, any pregnant woman who steps on a plane has that fear. What if?

Can you even imagine? The plane takes off and travels up to 35,000 feet, high above the clouds. The flight attendants start pushing the drink carts down the aisle and you’re trying decide whether you want sparkling water or orange juice. All of a sudden, whoah! That hurts! You’re in premature labor, trapped on a claustrophobic plane with a bunch of strangers. Not exactly an inviting place to have a baby, unless you’re a person who enjoys having an audience.

This exact scenario happened to a brave woman flying on an Aeroloft flight between Ukraine and Moscow this week.

Thankfully Anastasia Kozlova had plenty of help. Four flight attendants and a nurse who happened to be on the plane stepped in to deliver the baby girl.

At first the baby wasn’t breathing and Sofia Biryukova, 23, a trained nurse who practices baby massage, realized the infant’s passages were clogged with mucous. Biryukova saved the day by sucking on the child’s mouth and nose, UPI reports.

The plane made an emergency landing at a Ukraine airport where mother and baby were whisked to the nearest hospital. Both are both doing well. Let’s hope Aeroloft gives this baby free flights for life, or at least a set of special wings!

Kozlova was 30 weeks pregnant and well within the safe range for flying. But sometimes, actually more often than you’d imagine, things don’t go as planned and women go into premature labor mid-flight. Kozlova certainly isn’t the first person to deliver at 35,000 feet. Just last week a Nigerian woman gave birth in Indian airspace.

Last April, a flight attendant helped deliver a baby on a flight from Atlanta to Africa. “I just held him up, and I said, ‘It’s a boy.’ And everybody clapped, and there was laughter, and it was really fun and exciting. And she was so happy and weepy,” flight attendant Susan Carnes told ABC News.

In August a baby was given the name EK by his mother because she delivered him on an Emirates plane. EK is the airlines flight code. The story goes that she delivered him while straddling a restroom toilet on a flight between Manila and Dubai. The plane was diverted to Ho Chih Min City, Vietnam.

In September 2011 a mother delivered a baby boy on a flight from Manila to San Francisco. She named him Francis after the city with the Golden Gate. The boy’s citizenship was up in the air, according to the Huffington Post, because it was unclear whether he was born in the United States or over international waters. And these are only the stories from the past year.

[UPI]