Archive for the ‘Twins’ Category

Good news for San Francisco parents: Muni becomes more kid-friendly with new stroller policy

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Hooray! I can ride on San Francisco’s Muni train! (White Packert / Getty)

When San Francisco mom Jessica Franklin had her twins over a year ago, she and her husband were forced to buy a second car because the city’s rigid baby stroller policy on public transportation made taking the bus or train nearly impossible. In the past they could always depend on public transit if both parents needed to go separate ways, but with public transit no longer being a dependable option they had no other choice.

Under the policy, drivers could decide whether to allow a passenger with a stroller onto a bus or train and if they welcomed the passenger on board then he or she was required to remove the baby from the stroller and fold it up. This made traveling with twins, or any small child, cumbersome.

But beginning today, March 1, San Francisco Municipal Transit Assocation (SFMTA) is introducing a new policy and riding Muni with a stroller will become much easier.

Strollers are now permitted on all SFMTA vehicles, except cable cars. Riders are now allowed to keep a child in a stroller as long as long as the kid is strapped in, the wheels are locked, the stroller isn’t blocking an aisle and the train isn’t crowded. If a train is packed, the driver can ask a passenger to fold up the stroller.

Also, passengers with a stroller can board a train using a lift or ramp, which is a huge help if your baby is sleeping and you don’t want to disturb him. In the past, this wasn’t allowed.

Franklin played a key role in nudging SFMTA to introduce this new policy. When she realized that taking Muni was going to be difficult with her twins, she wrote a letter to her supervisor, Sean Elsbernd.

And he wrote back saying, “…your e-mail precipitated the discussions I have been having with the MTA for the last month and the legislation Supervisor Chiu and I introduced on Tuesday. While a ‘baby’ step in the process, it is significant, and it would not have happened without your advocacy.”

Last spring, Supervisors Elsbernd and Chiu proposed legislation asking Muni to allow babies to stay in their strollers. The legislation passed unanimously and now finally a new policy is in place.

Muni spokesperson Paul Rose said, “This is an effort to make Muni more family friend. We’ve heard from our passengers in the past and now we’re doing something.”

Franklin wasn’t the first parent to complain about the old policy. Virginia Balogh-Rosenthal is another San Francisco mother of twins and she says, “When my twins were young [15 years ago], I was shocked at how antagonistic MUNI drivers were when I tried to take my kids in a double stroller (which was no wider than a wheelchair) on the underground. I was even more depressed after visiting a number of other countries that were quite welcoming of strollers on public transit”

“Throughout the years, the SF Mothers of Twins Club (now SF Parents of Multiples Club)  made various attempts to get the policy changed, to no avail.” Balogh-Rosenthal added. But last year when one of the club’s current members, Jennifer Franklin, contacted some members of the Board of Supervisors, they were receptive.

“I guess the timing was finally right!” Balogh-Rosenthal said.

As a parent myself, I welcome this news. For a year, my daughter and I traveled on the J Church between our home and her infant care and from there I walked to work. I would have loved to put her in a stroller but I knew this would mean that we might not make it on a train or I’d have to pull her out of the stroller and fold it up. Instead I stuck her in a backpack, but my back is now paying for all that heavy lifting. If my husband and I had twins, we would have been forced to buy a second car.

Are you happy about the new stroller policy? Why or why not?

Miracle twins give Bay Area parents best holiday gift ever

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Kate and Annie Carlson snuggle in the same bed for the first time. (Business Wire)

Less than 1 percent of twins share an amniotic sac in their mother’s womb. The situation is rare and risky and some 20 percent of what are called monoamniotic twins die, often because the umbilical cord becomes entangled, cutting off the blood and food supply.

But not Kate and Annie Carlson who were born at Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital on November 7 at only 30 weeks old.

These miracle twins defied the odds even though their cords were tied in a dangerous knot. A delivery team led by Dr. Susan Crowe performed a successful cesarean section, bringing into the world two perfect babies, weighing about 3 pounds each. The parents, Allison and Kevin Carlson of Menlo Park, were thrilled and relieved.

Dr. Crowe hoped to put off the surgery until the end of the month so Kate and Annie would have more time to grow and develop to minimize the risk of lung disease and other complications associated with prematurity. But when doctors discovered that the twins’ heart rates were decreasing, they decided the pair must enter the world immediately — about 10 weeks before the babies would hit a full 40-week term.

New parents Kevin and Allison plan to take their children home from Packard Children’s soon. (Business Wire)

“Having a set of monoamniotic twins can be dangerous and unpredictable,” Crowe said in a release. “With no membrane dividing them, the obstetrician has to balance the risk of prematurity with the risk of a cord event. But, thanks to the excellent care our NICU gives our high-risk cases and preemies, we expect very good outcomes if we have to deliver them early.”

Initially the first-time parents thought they were having only one baby, but were delighted to learn at week 17 that Allison was pregnant with twins. Their excitement quickly turned to fear when they learned their twins shared an amniotic sac. The day of the c-section was one of the scariest in Allison’s life. “One of the nurses held my hand and spoke to me in a soothing voice as I was getting my anesthesia,” she said. “She calmly walked me through the entire procedure.”

Thankfully Allison and her girls were in good hands at a hospital that specializes in high-risk pregnancies. And while the twins will be spending Christmas at the hospital, continuing to grow and get strong, they should be home by the new year. The super-happy parents will be taking the girls home to a nursery decked out with plenty of pink, and the family dog is already sleeping in the girls’ room to stand guard.

Are you as crazy about twins as we are at SFGate? Check out some of our readers’ terrific twin photos.

NorCal woman breaks Guinness World Record with heaviest triplets

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A Northern California mom gave birth to triplets that weighed a combined record-breaking 20 pounds. Someone please get this woman a prize, a drink, an extra set of hands?

“Twenty pounds is no joke,” points out CBS Sacramento. “That’s the same weight as two big bags of potatoes, or 36 onions, or 40 loaves of bread, or four gallons of milk.”

Brittany Deen delivered three babies by c-section at Sacramento’s Sutter Memorial Hospital on November 8. While triplets are usually born early at about 32 weeks, Deen made it to 37, giving the infants plenty of time to grow. The average length of pregnancy is 38 weeks.

“We were excited. We were scared out of our minds,” Deen told CBS.

Sidney came in at an impressive 7.8 pounds; Elliott weighed a healthy 7.2 pounds; and Jenson was the smallest at 5.5 pounds. “Together they made for a Guinness World Record setting 20 pound child birth,” CBS Sacramento reported. (Keep in mind that the average triplet weighs about four pounds.)

Until the Deen clan came along, the heaviest set of living triplets on record were reportedly born last summer. Kate, Ethan and Owen Sullivan of North Carolina weighed in at 18 pounds 11.48 ounces, according to the News Observer. A Canadian family held the record before the Sullivan trio.

Eating 6,000 calories a day, Deen gained 80 pounds during pregnancy. She lost 50 immediately after birth. Most moms delivering one child are 12 pounds lighter after birth, according to BabyCenter.

While multiple births are often the result of infertility treatments such as IVF, Deen’s pregnancy was completely natural. This is rare—triplets occur naturally in about 1 in every 7921 pregnancies.

Sidney is unable to eat on his own and in the NICU. The parents are looking forward to him getting strong enough to come home.

Courteous parents of twins placate plane passengers by handing out candies

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Any new parent knows to board a plane flight equipped with bottles, blankets, pacifiers, toys and any other gear to help keep their babies quiet. But should parents bring gifts for their fellow passengers as a way to say sorry for any noise their children might make?

That’s what people are asking after a Reddit user posted an image of a goodie bag that parents passed out on a recent flight from San Francisco to Washington, D.C.

Take a look at these cute little bags of candy with a charming note attached.

The parents of 14-week-old twins gave passengers a gift as a sort of preemptive strike to prevent dirty looks. The plastic bags included hard candies and chocolates and a note apologizing for any noise from the 14-week-old twins.

The Reddit posting immediately spurred a discussion and now has over 3,100 comments. The user who posted the image called the parents “brilliant and thoughtful” and many readers chimed in saying that they’d love for parents to give them gifts and buy them rounds of drinks on flights. But others felt the gesture was unnecessary and think babies on planes aren’t any more bothersome than an obnoxious passenger talking too loudly.

One user wrote: “My thinking is, the kids have to travel too (it isn’t like a movie theater where it is just for recreation), and as long as the parents are doing their best I really don’t mind.”

What do you think? Should parents pass out gifts on flights?

Twice the fun: 1 in 30 babies born in the U.S. is a twin

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Walk the sidewalks of any hip urban enclave—San Francisco’s Noe Valley, Portland’s Hawthorne District, or Brooklyn’s Park Slope—and you’ll find yourself dodging double strollers. In these areas that attract the upwardly mobile educated class twins seem to be a dime a dozen.

And this isn’t because you’re seeing double: The numbers show that twins are on the rise. A new study from Michigan State University shows that in 2009 one in every 30 babies born in the United States was a twin compared with one in every 53 in 1980.

“Prior to 1980, the incidence of U.S. twin births was stable at about 2 percent of all births, but it has risen dramatically in the past three decades,” said study author Barbara Luke, a researcher in the Michigan State’s College of Human Medicine’s Department of Obstetrics, Gynecology and Reproductive Biology.

The dramatic increase is a result of more women having kids later in life and becoming more dependent on In-vitro fertilization, aka IVF, to get pregnant.

IVF creates thousands of new families—some 48,000 in the U.S. every year. The process by which egg cells are fertilized by sperm outside the woman’s womb is used when all other methods of assisted reproductive technology have failed. It’s often used when a woman over 35 years old struggles with getting pregnant.

Why are so many IVF babies twins? To increase the probability of a successful pregnancy, doctors typically implant two to three embryos into the woman’s womb.

In the spirit of twins, we’ve put together a slide show of readers’ dynamic duos.