Archive for August, 2012

Dan Woog has a new book: “We Kick Balls”

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When not coaching the Staples High School boys soccer team, Dan Woog is a prolific and terrific writer. He has authored a number of books and his work has appeared in Sports Illustrated and The New York Times.

Woog has a new book about soccer out, “We Kick Balls.” I will have more about it when I return from vacation in two weeks, but for now, better than anything I can tell you is the description of the book on one of the sites where you can order it, for $12.95. Just click here.

For those of you who just want to read it here, I have cut and pasted it below. One item of note omitted: Dan coached me for one summer when I was in middle school. Miracle Worker is not on his resume.

In over 30 years as a youth and high school soccer coach, Dan Woog has seen it all.

Crazy kids. Berserk parents. Amazing games. Funny, weird, fantastic, awful situations. And that’s just one day.

Soccer has been very, very good to Dan. He’s taken teams to Europe, Brazil and Australia. He’s been to Pele’s house, coached in front of 77,000 people, helped raise $25,000 at a carwash, and acted in a soccer movie.

He’s met incredible young athletes, forged lifelong bonds, and had them tested by too many deaths. He’s learned what makes teenagers tick. He’s learned a lot about life. And he’s learned even more about himself.

After describing – with great hilarity, deep compassion, keen insight and a deft, lively touch – everything from coaching players who were “off in the corner juggling while God handed out common sense” to dealing with those who face incredible personal struggles and tragedies – Dan talks about his own life. The final chapter covers his own coming out as a gay man – a defining moment in his career.

We Kick Balls: True Stories from the Youth Soccer Wars has been called “funny, warm, courageous and edifying.” It ricochets from the World Cup to Dachau, from race and religion to 9/11. Because teenagers are involved, there’s sex, alcohol and rock ‘n’ roll. Somehow, soccer connects them all.

Dan often says, “There’s more to life than soccer. And there’s more to soccer than soccer.” We Kick Balls is a book about kids, life, and everything that happens to all of us, on and off the field.

It’s a soccer book, sure, but it’s much more. It’s a book for anyone who has teenagers, or works with them. It’s about society as much as it’s about sports. And, given the current visibility of gay issues, it’s an important voice in our national conversation.

Dan Woog is uniquely positioned to tell these tales – and tell them winningly. A Westport, Conn.-based soccer coach, writer and educator, he’s won state championships. He’s been named a national Coach of the Year, and been inducted into Connecticut’s Soccer Hall of Fame. A graduate of Brown University, Dan has written thousands of newspaper and magazine articles, been published in the New York Times and Sports Illustrated, and authored two books on the experiences of gay male athletes. His athletes are most impressed that he’s appeared on “The Daily Show with Jon Stewart.”

Emma’s Dilemma: Loving lacrosse

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In my last post, I talked about how basketball just wasn’t for me this summer. Now it seems like lacrosse is taking its place. In this post I’ll tell you a bit about my experience at lacrosse camp this past June.

Before June 28, I had never been to camp. Band camp, basketball camp, you name it, I’ve never been to it. So, you can imagine my surprise when I packed up my bags for a three-day lacrosse camp (emphasis on lacrosse). Never in my 17 years of living would I imagine myself at a sleepaway camp. So, let me give you a background story on how I ended up at Wesleyan University for three days.

My older brother, Cyprian, graduated this past May from Wesleyan University. He played football for them and this past season he earned a well-deserved spot as captain (no I’m not just saying that because he is my brother). During my basketball season, his football coach got wind of my 30-30 game (33 points, 31 rebounds) against New Canaan. This led to him giving my name out to the head women’s basketball coach. We e-mailed back and forth sporadically for a couple of months.

As March rolled around, so did lacrosse. The head basketball coach then said she would give my name out to the head women’s lacrosse coach. As the season went on, my team progressed tremendously and so did my skills. I then got an email saying one of the assistant coaches would be at my last game. It was a state game against Greenwich, which was a big accomplishment for our team seeing as how we made it so far.

At the end of the first half, our team was leading and Greenwich was going into a frenzy. Our fans were cheering like crazy because not a lot of people expected us to have a fighting chance. We did lose that game but we played with so much heart and made the opposing team so frantic because it was not expecting anything that happened that day. I left that game feeling like I could have done more on the field and like I didn’t play my best.

But, apparently, the Wesleyan assistant coach liked what she saw. As a result, I was then e-mailing the head coach back and forth starting the following week. She then invited me to attend a lacrosse camp held at the university.

June 28 came and I was ready to go. I drove up to Wesleyan by myself and was anxious, happy and a plethora of other emotions all wrapped into a 6-foot tall frame. When I arrived on campus it was almost like I was arriving at home. I had been to the school so many times because of my brother that I didn’t even need my GPS for the hour and a half long drive. I got my room key, grabbed my things and headed for my dorm. The dorms were a bit dark and the rooms were a tad hot but the beautiful campus made up for it.

We had practice twice a day and ended each of those days with a scrimmage. We had a pool stretch, went to the weight room and much more. It was actually a really fun, sore three days. It was weird, being on such a strict schedule. We had breakfast at 7:30 a.m. and dinner at 5:30 p.m. Lights out was at 10:30. My body definitely did not agree with those times.

I felt like I was in the Marines, but I obviously had it a thousand times better. Throughout the three days, I made so much progress. I think I became a better player and all-around athlete. The coaches were absolutely great and the girls were nice. I laughed a lot, more than I ever thought I would in all honesty.

Maybe my expectations were so off kilter because I thought I would die due to how out of shape I was. Luckily, I didn’t let it show while I was playing. The coaches seemed to like me and I was hearing good things from some of the other girls. I would like to think my skills were what stood out, but being a 6-foot tall African-American girl, I was pretty hard to miss. I was one of probably three African-American girls, which I found to be completely hilarious because I unintentionally brought unwanted attention to myself. But, all jokes aside, I think my skills and pure athleticism is what made me stand out over those three days.

A few firsts happened during that short time. I never had to use sunscreen before but boy did I need to because I literally turned three shades darker. I had never been to a lacrosse camp before, but I went. And I never thought I’d get any interest from lacrosse coaches, but I did.

Like I have said in my previous posts, I am a very indecisive person. But my love for lacrosse is one thing I’m sure about. My love for the sport only grew over those three days. I met a couple of girls that I still keep in touch with and even reconnected with a girl I used to play AAU with. My skills improved tremendously and I created a better bond with a coach from a university that is now one of the top on my list.

To say it was a fun experience would be an understatement. The camp definitely gave me a better perspective of the life of a Division III college athlete and of Wesleyan as an institution. It’s crazy how much my thoughts and feelings about college, where I want to be and what I want to do have changed in such a short amount of time.

But I am glad they did.

Staples releases a 2012 kickoff video

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Earlier this summer the New Canaan football team released a kickoff video.

Apparently it is a growing trend among FCIAC powers.

Now Staples, the defending conference champion, has put out its own one. It consists of top plays from the 2011 season; considering the team defeated Greenwich for the league title and advanced to the state championship game, there were many of them.

The film was produced by Chris O’Shea, who has done all the videotaping for the Wreckers for years.

Check it out.

Poll (PREseason edition): Which football team will win the FCIAC title?

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Can Marce Petroccio and Staples repeat as FCIAC champions?

Today is officially the first day of the high school football season. So it’s an opportune time to ask: which team is going to win the FCIAC title, right?

Of course it is an absurd question at this point, and it is a poll we will hold later in the year.

But right now everyone has been starved for a little high school football talk, so let’s have a little opening day fun.

During the offseason, five teams have been mentioned most often as title contenders: Staples, Greenwich, Darien and Ridgefield because of returning personnel, and New Canaan, which lost a lot of starters but is New Canaan.

So those are the five teams we will offer for our first of what will likely be many polls during the course of the season. If you think someone else is going to emerge from the pack, hit the “other” category. You have until noon Friday to vote.

Video: USC coach Lane Kiffin talks about Silas Redd

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Silas Redd makes a move during a recent USC practice. (John McGillen/USC)

By all accounts, Silas Redd’s transition to playing at USC after two weeks has been seamless.

His new coach, Lane Kiffin, agrees.

Kiffin discussed Redd while meeting with the media after practice on Thursday. Here is the video — Redd is brought up a little over 6 minutes in, at the very end of the conference.

By the way, I spoke with Redd for about 10 minutes Thursday night. Look for my story in the Advocate on Sunday.

The new Player, Team of the Week T-shirts

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It is hard to believe that we will be handing out our first Overtime Player and Team of the Week awards in just four weeks. Part of this summer has been spent here fine-tuning things with the blog for the coming high school sports season, with new features, guest contributors and awards.

But our weekly awards are by far our most popular feature, and we did a little updating with the approximately 1,500 T shirts we will be handing out this year.

The Player of the Week T shirt, as always, stays the same, we just change the colors each year. Since it was a hot color at the Olympics, we decided to go with yellow this season, with black lettering (people in Trumbull will no doubt like them most!).

The Team of the Week shirts will remain grey this year — full disclosure, we still have some remaining from a year ago to hand out — which will feature our new Team of the Week logo, which was designed by Westhill graduate and current Syracuse Daily Orange staff member Lizzie Hart.

We think they look pretty cool. We hope you feel the same way. We are looking forward to handing them out.

Help devise a contest and win a prize

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The high school sports season is just weeks away, which means the start of the voting for Overtime Team of the Week and the awarding of the FCIAC Player of the Week awards.

Now we have the opportunity for another prize and, frankly, I need your help. BlueStreak Sports Training, our original sponsor, has agreed to give out one free training session a week throughout the school year. I have been trying to come up with a good contest and, to be honest, I have a few ideas that I like but none that I love.

So I am reaching out to you readers. I would like the contest to have elements both of a vote on the blog and involve Twitter to make use of social media, though I am open to anything that would be fun and continue the mandate to bring recognition to the accomplishments of FCIAC athletes.

So if you think you have an idea that would be fun email me at rudend@gmail.com. If we use your suggestion, or elements of it, you will get a free training session and T-shirt from BlueStreak.

Who knows? Maybe we will even name the contest after you.

Matheis rated nation’s top incoming freshman lacrosse player

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Darien's Case Matheis races by the Wilton defense during the state semifinals in June.

Darien’s Case Matheis was rated as the No. 1 scholastic player in the country this past season by most rankings.

So it should come as no surprise that in the latest issue of Inside Lacrosse, the Duke-bound Matheis was named the the No. 1 incoming freshman in the country in the September recruiting issue, which ranks the top 100. Matheis is the first player from Connecticut to achieve that status. He is one of three players on the September cover.

In a testament of respect for the Blue Wave program, two of Matheis’ former teammates also were highly ranked. Henry West and Tony Britton, who will both play at Cornell, are No. 17 and 37, respectively.

Duke’s incoming class is rated third nationally, behind North Carolina and Virginia.

Here is a link for all the rankings, including an interview with Matheis.

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